A Bold New Approach ...
What if you were driving your car without realizing that you were using the rear view mirror instead of looking out of the windshield? And what if your accelerator were stopping forward motion, and your brake pedal accelerated your car, and you didn't know that? As unlikely as that possibility seems, how would driving be different if you discovered how those pedals really work?
for Parents & Teachers
What if your parenting or teaching experience shifted in the same way, and you discovered that neither you, your partner, your parents, nor your children, were to blame for guilt, struggle, or upsets? What if, in all your parenting frustrations, concerns, and quandaries, there was nothing wrong? Imagine that you could see how and why all the burden and upset that happens in your life happens? What if cooperation and appreciation were natural and normal?
And, yes, parenting is and will continue to be challenging. If it weren't, neither would it be fulfilling.